Hi, I’m Ryan D’eath (pronounced dee-ath; you can’t begin to imagine how much aggro that name has given me lol, I also have an uncle who is a doctor…or Dr Death as we call him..anyways..) a few months ago, 9 to be precise, I split up with my girlfriend of several years, and found myself on the daunting path of singledom yet again. Having been out of the game for so long, my every attempt at attracting women was a failure! I had no idea how to act around or talk to women, and it was incredibly frustrating! I felt doomed to wander a lonely life forever (or until I died that is!).
Now I’m not a particularly bad looking guy, and it made me so angry when I would see ugly guys walking down the street with a stunning girl on their arm, pandering to them. This got me thinking, how the hell can he have a gorgeous girlfriend and I can’t; what’s his secret: what does he know that I don’t!?!?! So I began my mission: to scour the internet in search of as much information as I could on how to improve my success with women in all departments, and get me back on my feet no matter the cost! So you’ve been
dumped, most of us have been there, so you’re not alone. This is the first
article, of several, that will provide the most effective methods of surviving
a break up, and help you either get on with your life, or eventually get your
ex back.
-Focus on negative
aspects of your ex; did they have an annoying laugh or a funny finger, anything
negative about them, focus on it!
-Go out with friends...a lot! Try to minimise the amount of time you are alone. Try to go out to public places with them; meeting new people ALWAYS helps, even if it’s just a little bit. You never know you may meet someone else, and I know that’s not what you want to here right now, but trust me, dating another person does help. Believe it or not, it will also increase your chances of getting your ex back too (but that’s for another article). You don’t have to sleep with anyone else, just keep it harmless dates; maybe try online flirting etc.
-Something which
always helped me a lot recovering from a break up was to keep telling myself
that the whole universe is so immensely huge that in comparison my problem is
so miniscule in the grand scheme of things. There could be another person, in
another solar system in the exact same situation as me. For some reason this
gave me comfort.
-Visualise yourself
with other partners, fantasise about them. Or even fantasise about what you
would do if you ruled the world or had infinite money. It’s important you do
not fantasise about your ex at all.
Follow these tips
and you will definitely notice a decrease in the pain you feel after a few
weeks!
Good luck
More information
and tips can be found on my blog.